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We all fantasize about a good face sitting session, but most of us are shy about asking for it or uncomfortable while it goes on. In this article, we are gonna take away your pains and teach you all about how to facesit.
What’s Great About Facesitting?
It is a lot more erotic than your traditional pussy eating techniques. It allows for clit, vulva, and ass play. And most importantly, it allows you to have an upper hand and dominate your partner while you can also determine your own moves.
Is it Safe For My Partner?
It is absolutely safe if you know the right facesitting techniques. Of course, in this part, you cannot go as vigorously as a nymphomaniac. But with the right measure, you and your partner are good to go. However, if you are overweight, you may have to be more careful.
Is There Special Hygiene For Facesitting?
Basic Guideline for Facesitting
- Make him lie on his back.
- Keep your knees on either side of his head while you face towards his lower body.
- Now lower yourself on him and slowly pull your knees apart.
- Find some furniture or his stomach to support yourself.
- Now let him pull you towards his face and determine the pressure he is comfortable with.
- You may also face in the opposite direction and hold a sofa or wall while sitting on his face.
Alternative Facesitting Positions
If you wish to know how to ride his face, you must be acquainted with the positions. The first is squatting. It requires strong leg muscles as you do not completely ‘sit’ but suspend yourself over his face to give him the space to lick and breathe. This allows your partner to move more freely and change between clit and ass. Open up your legs apart as much as you can while you are at it.
Standing and Kneeling
Often people google how to facesit by kneeling and the answer is simple- you stand and let your partner sit down on the floor while you kneel and bring yourself closer to his face. Make sure you have something for support. You can also raise one of your legs on his shoulders for support. This also allows more thrust and control over the movements of his head.
On The Chest
You can sit on his chest, bring yourself closer to his mouth, and arch backward. This is especially erotic as it gives you the full view of the activity while you sit on his face. If you are one who enjoys looking at stuff being done to you, this is your pose. You may also lie back completely like a 69 position, only reverse.
Advanced Face Sitting Tips
Tips For Women
- Make sure you discuss this with your partner before mounting on him. Let him consent and be comfortable.
- Initially, it may take some time to get in a position where you both are comfortable. Although it is an immensely pleasurable activity, it is complicated, to begin with. Do not be disheartened or ashamed.
- If you take a long time to cum, make sure you give him breaks. Come up with a signal that can be used when he gets uncomfortable. Meanwhile, engage in a different position of pussy eating or resume sex.
- You need not orgasm only by facesitting. Guys love a great handjob or a blowjob but that doesn’t mean he is gonna orgasm just through that.
- Trim your bushes well.
Tips For Men
- Move your tongue freely over the vulva, clit, and ass. You may also use your nose.
- Do not pressure yourself and let your partner know if you are having breathing issues or any other discomfiture.
- Use your fingers if the position permits you. You can also reach out for her breasts.
Tips For Plus Size Women
Plus size women often shy away from facesitting, but with the right facesitting tips, you too can have your slice of pleasure.
- Do not get nervous or embarrassed. Be confident about your body.
- Go for the standing or squatting positions. That way you need not concentrate your entire weight on your partner.
- Invest in good sex furniture that allows this activity to be done without much hassle.
- You can also take the doggy position while asking your partner to slide under you. And slowly lowering yourself, enjoy!
Now that you know all about how to facesit, we hope tonight there will be a lot more than just sex! Facesitting is one of the greatest pleasures reserved for womankind, do not live your life without it.
- 1 What’s Great About Facesitting?
- 2 Basic Guideline for Facesitting
- 3 Alternative Facesitting Positions
- 4 Advanced Face Sitting Tips
- 5 Final Word