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Human beings are called social “animals” for a reason. Civilization has led to the subjugation of animal instincts but not the eradication of them. Man lives on a tight rope of societal norms and, with the slightest deviation, can assume a different personality altogether. It is kins of a personality that is closer to animals.
This raw primordial drive is often explored in primal play. Couples act like animals and perform a ceremony of winning over each other, often violently. This includes a complete let go of consideration and every civilized trait. One is consumed by the pure pleasure principle and raw drive.
Primal play is often mistaken to be animal play, but the truth is animal play is only a part of it but not the whole. Primal play kink involves a lot more nuanced aspects than just one partner acting like an animal or sex rougher than your regular vanilla.
Thus, if you love to unleash the animal within you in bed, you might wanna take your game a notch higher. Are you not sure how to go about it? Worry not for we are there to help you out.
What is Primal Fetish?
Primal fetish can be very well called a part of BDSM. It is practiced by a lot of people out there who love to assume a whole personality of animals while making out.
It is not equivalent to dressing up like animals while fucking like human beings. It requires you to make noises, scratch, bite and take control like animals do in their world. You must get on your fours with a serious intention of fucking only in the positions animals are capable of.
You’ve gotta drop all your civil behaviors and manners to do this properly. In fact, you gotta cut down on positions that are implausible in the animal world (no matter how good you feel about those.)
What Does Primal Sex Include?
Primal BDSM is almost opposite to your regular BDSM. BDSM practitioners have certain personality traits that make them want to either inflict pain on others or achieve a masochistic pleasure from pain. They use several toys such as cuffs, ropes, whips, etc. But in the case of primal fetish, one must ditch these items and focus more on naturalistic aspects of the body such as long nails, untrimmed hair, natural body odor, teeth, etc.
The following step involves a capture by foreplay which is generally rough. The female often tries to avoid mating while the male tries to force himself upon her. It is not a rigid equation, and you are free to explore. This involves a lot of growling, scratching, sniffing, clawing, biting, and so on.
It is a very sensual act that does not let any inhibitions come in the way and thus must be performed by people you are comfortable with. It does not let you hide away any of your vigor and nastiness.
How Is It Different From Animal Play or Pet Play?
Animal play does not necessarily require both partners to assume the roles of animals. It can very well be that one partner acts like an animal while the other (retaining his/her human personality) humiliates and plays around with the pet partner. Both may also get involved but it is different from primal kink.
A primal kink is not merely ‘acting’ as a particular animal but unleashing your basic instinct. In the process, one must assume the role of an animal. It is not wearing an animal mask but on the contrary, shedding your human mask.
Primal Fetish Scenarios Explained
Primal Dom vs Primal Sub
This one is the most ideal scenario of a primal play BDSM. The primal dominant will exert force and power over the sub, and the sub will enjoy the same. The latter is the prey, and there is no contest for power or subjugation.
Primal Dom vs Primal Dom
This is a more intense and violent version of primal kink. Here both the partners want to assume the role of the primal dominant. They will try to override each other for control. There will be a great deal of scratching, screaming and both parties will inflict wounds on each other.
Primal Kink Guidelines
Consent and Discussion
One of the main sections of BDSM ethics is consent. It is very important that you take your partner’s consent and discuss the scenario that you want to go forward with.
Amke sure your partner is not taken aback by anything in the middle of the act, that will only ruin the mood.
Setting the Rules and Limits
Before indulging in primal sex and after elaborate discussion, you must come up with certain rules and limits. Unleashing the animal inside you would mean that there will be no consideration or civil code. And this can be extremely dangerous if certain limits are not set.
Like any Dom-sub equation, come up with a safeword (it could also be a sign to keep in the animal spirit) and let go of your partner at the first instance of the word or sign uttered.
Set the Atmosphere
Select a large empty space for your play. It will give you ample places to explore like animals. You can also light candles in your room and get naked and on your fours. Build up the atmosphere by sniffing each other and growling.
You must pick your spot very carefully. An open lawn is the best but may not be very feasible. If you live in a secluded area or have gone to your cabin for the holidays, feel free to explore outdoors. That would complete your primal fetish definition the best.
Let Your Animal Out
Now that the mood is set, do not restrain yourself and go about howling, grabbing, biting, and spanking. Take control of your primal submissive and enjoy the power of the Alpha animal.
- Primal in BDSM can be painful for the sub and thus respect limits
- Keep a first aid kit handy
- Attend to the wounds (if any) right after the play.
- Consult a doctor if the wounds are serious
- Respect the safeword or sign
Sex Toys To Use
Bondage restraints are a great way to take your game higher. It can help you control your partner better and allows you to fuck in positions unimaginable. You can tie your sub up and tease and sniff before you actually get into action.
Gags are widely used by BDSM couples. If you wish to know how to please your dom, this could be a beginning. Using a gag gives the dominant a sense of power over the sub, while the latter can display better signs of servility.
A gagged sub will allow the alpha partner to make the most noises which is a great turn-on. If you are the sub, try different submissive positions and offer yourself to the master.
Penis sleeves are miracle sex toys. They can increase the size of your dick by 3 inches, which can come in handy when in the doggy position. It will make your penis stick out and allure your mate. There are certain penis sleeves that are made to look like a horse or dog cock. These add a great twist to your primal sex.
They are realistic and also allow you to display your erection through the semi-transparent body.
With this, we come to an end of our report of primal play. It is an experience that must be realized at least once in a lifetime. We are all animals beneath our skins. Why tuck away the instincts even in bed (or floor). Isn’t it enough that we have to be civilized in all other places?
Think again, do we ‘act’ like animals in a primal sex session, or do we ‘act’ like humans everywhere else? Let us know what you think about this bold sexual play.
- 1 What is Primal Fetish?
- 2 Primal Fetish Scenarios Explained
- 3 Primal Kink Guidelines
- 4 Safety Tips
- 5 Sex Toys To Use
- 6 Final Words